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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i feel like im a very forgettable person. my close group of friends are always getting invited to parties and so is my boyfriend, who is known around school as the cool funny guy. everyone knows me and they see me as a friendly nice girl but it always seems like im being forgotten. it makes me feel really humiliated as i feel like even though people see me,they dont remember me as im not...worthy enough? it makes me feel like im not good enough, looks wise, academic, sport... ive never had good self esteem and being left out of all these social events when all my other friends and my boyfriend is invited to makes me feel like im not good enough for them. my boyfriend tries to persuade me to just go with him as his date or whatever, and when i say i dont want to he says that he wont go without me. i feel really embarrassed when he does this as well because it seems like a pity thing and im too embarrassed to tell him or my friends how i feel as they will just tell me im being oversensitive and immature...which may be true but nevertheless i still feel upset.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (6 June 2009):
Have you actually tried to leave an impression with people? You need to be very outgoing!! Or have you ever thought that maybe people don't like you as much as you think they do? X
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