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writes:well, to start all of this, Im a lesbian [if you dunt like it, too bad]. Theres this girl who I really really really like.I mean I love her! Right now Im 20 and shes 19. When we were like 14 years old, we dated. We broke up over a simple question I asked, but whatever. Then I moved across the country. We sorta dated online/long distance relationship. IT SUCKED! We once again broke up coz of LDR! We became like best friends that do everything together..like EVVERYTHINGGG! Everytime Im around her, I just want to kiss her! I still have a lot a lot of feelings for her, even thro her other best friend told me that she only likes me as a friend now [heres a trick- when we drink, she tells me she likes me MORE than a friend;; when people drink they tell the truth, right?] Part of me think she does have feelings for me coz of the way she acts and talk. Normally we dunt talk everyday, but lately, she have been wanting to talk to me all the time, come over all the time and everything..Im trying to close my feelings toward her being more than a friend, so how can i lik stop the feeling? I tried alot of things, but i dunt know what to do.. HELP?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): ask her and see how she feels, it will be alrightt if you have been girlfriends before. if you hadnt been together at first it would be awkward and hard to tell her but its not now!
go ahead and make a move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): i think you should tell her how you feel and all there is to do is hope she feels the same way. & if she doesnt, well then you just keep looking for someone else. If your affraid to loose your friendshipby making it awkward, it usally never happens. good luck ;)
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reader, Santashelper +, writes (6 June 2009):
 if you really like her you should tell her. that way she can tell you if she likes u more than a friend..or not. if she says she doesnt like you it may be ackword being around her at first but it will turn out ok. hope she says yes
xxxSantashelper
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): You could talk to her but it might end up ruining the friendship you too have. he might just want to be friends with you know. Try and get along and forget your feelings but if you can't then talk to her. If she doesn't fel the same way then you should just accept it and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): Well, first you could consider asking her, rather than us, what she wants out of your relationshp.
But to take on your question directly, the only way to damp down your feelings for someone is to cut off contact with them completely and move on with your life without them.
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