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writes:i ve cheated on my boyfriend and asked for forgivenness but he hardens up whereas he has cheated too although not caught redhanded but he still makes life difficult for me.
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reader, rocknroll  +, writes (6 June 2009):
Some good points made, and with the little/no background about you two, it is hard to answer.
He cheated, but doesn't sound like their is rock solid proof.
If he did cheat, he maybe feeling your fling was payback, which is a form of rubbing it in his face.
If the conditions that created the fling are still present, then things between you will not improve, and this is the challenge you both need to tackle.
If you can, but the book "seven levels of intimacy, by matthew kelly", it will help you on your way of exploring self and each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): Because there is no trust in the relationship anymore
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 June 2009):
 Because he doesn't want to. Why not? Well that is his issue. Sure, he seems a hypocrit if he cheated but can't forgive yours but that is the way he is.
Since you both are obviously inable to be to true to each other, what exactly are you together for?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 June 2009):
 The bottom line is that everyone is different about how they handle things, I couldn't forgive someone who cheated on me so I'm with your boyfriend on this. I know he's cheated on you too and you have forgave him but that's you! You shoudlnt have forgave him and you shouldn't have cheated!
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reader, pebble +, writes (6 June 2009):
 He makes life difficult for you? Wow, what a totally selfish thing to say.Maybe you should have thought about how he would react before you cheated on him.He has every right to be angry at you, you should be grovelling, not complaining how difficult it is for you.Whether he has cheated or not, does not mean it's ok for you to go out and do it. You are not owed forgiveness because he cheated and you forgave him. You did something wrong. Simple as that.If you cannot accept the consequences then don't commit the crime in the first place.And really, you guys need to sit down and have a serious talk about your relationship if all you're doing is cheating on each other all the time. If you want to sleep with other people then be single.
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