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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went to a party with my girlfriend. She's new at my school (she has trouble making friends) and we been to together 3 months now. She kept clinging to me (she doesn`t really know anyone at the party besides me) she would`t let me 4 secords to myself. I was really getting annoyed with her so I told her need to make a cal (I was lying). Well I bumped to my ex (she doesn't know about my girlfriend) and well ended up making out a bit then going to my car and had sex. Then my girlfriend caught me an half of a hour. She was so upset she splashed her drink in my face and storm off. By the way I am her (or was) her first boyfriend. She didn't say it was over but she said she never wanted to see me a again. Are we over, cause I want to get back together?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): Yes, you hurt the poor girl emotionally. That'll last forever with her now. You should be ashamed of your immature actions. Now no girl will trust you or want to be with you because the way you treat girls like rubbish.
She's better off without you. Poor girl. I wonder what she ever saw in you. Leave her alone and don't wreck her life anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): Yes it's over.
You lied (about the phone call) and cheated.
Would you like it if your gf had sex with your friends?
Not only that, but your ex used you to humiliate your current gf. I'm guessing now, you are the proud owner of two exs.
Like the song says, "What part of never want to see you again, don't you understand?" Well, I paraphrased.
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reader, rocknroll  +, writes (6 June 2009):
Your girlfriend has every right to be upset with yu, and the quicker you learn why, the better your future will be in a relationship.
Very bad what you did, very bad.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (6 June 2009):
 of course your over and if she has any good sense she will never speak to you again. you cheated on the poor girl whilst she was near by and what shes suposed to be ok with that im sorry if this isnt what you want to hear but you commited a cardinal sin and their is no good in it. she was right to do what she did if she had any sense she would of gave you a slap but shes obviously better than that. she doesnt need someone who cant say look hun i need to speak to some friends get a bit of space no you run off with your ex and have sex with her IN YOUR CAR wtf shes suposed to be ok i dont think so.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (6 June 2009):
 I can't believe this is a real question....Yes, it's over. Why would she want to be with a cheater? Really, now.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (6 June 2009):
 If you can't keep it in your pants for a short while you don't deserve your old girlfriend. As you were her first you have hurt her very much and she will never forget the way you treated her. Do her a real favour and stay out of her life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): Sorry hun but I'm betting it's over. You could try talking things over with her but once you betray a girl's trust it can be very hard for her to forgive. No offence but next time you should avoid that type of contact with an ex if you want to keep a relationship going
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