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writes:The love of my life just broke up with me. He is married and so am I. We have been seeing each for 3 years and I am devastated. I know he loves me, but feels confused and guilty. I do not want him to leave his marriage. I am content to go on the way it has been. Do I have a chance of getting him back.Love him so much.
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reader, haleyisland +, writes (9 June 2009):
Maybe we can help each other .. I'm in a similiar situation and would like thoughts from someone in the same boat as I...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): how about trying to respect that he no longer wants you. and just accept facts instead of trying to concoct a plan to get him back. he choose and it wasn't you. seems as though he has moral morals than you. at least his gulit got to him and he decided to put an end. you, however nothing mattaes except getting what you want. in this situation, you just lucked out. please leave him alone. at least respect his decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): That's the risk one takes when seeing a married man...at any stage of the game he can get a case of guilt and realize he shouldn't be doing this!
In your case, however, you are married too! What about your husband? Do you ever feel bad that you have been cheating on him for three years?
If you don't want to be married, leave him and find yourself an available man. If you want to be married to him, then you have a lot of repairing to do!
Either way, good luck!
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reader, welshlass86  +, writes (7 June 2009):
Think about his wife. If you dont want him to leave his marriage - what do you want him to do? He cant keep having an affair with you..its not fair on his wife. He is obviously realising this which is why he has broken up with you, maybe to patch things up with his marriage, maybe you want to think about doing the same thing. But if your not happy in your marriage..maybe do something about it?
How can he this man be the love of your life - but you dont want him to end his marriage? surely if he is the love of ur life, you would want him for yourself?
It would be unfair to go on the way you have been..Does your husband know about the affair?
Maybe you need to have some counselling or marriage guidance?
Hope you find your answers..
Best Of luck x
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (6 June 2009):
 Guilt is not a nice feeling and not a nice place to be. What is lacking in your marriage? Do something about it. If you are not happy with your husband leave him. Your lover obviously is happy with his wife.
Dont embarass yourself any more. He already thinks that if you can cheat on your huisband, you will cheat on him. Look at it from an outsiders point.
Try to patch up your marriage before the truth comes out.
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