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writes: my best friend and i always trusted eachother. however i broke that trust and revealed a big secret of hers to someone else. she found that i revealed her secret, i realised my mistake and apologised. she said that she was angry with me and considering our friendship. she started to speak to me and i thought that she forgave me, but i was wrong. now everything she tells me, she makes me promise that im not gonna tell anyone, little things like shes not going out with us or shes going on holiday. shes become close with another person and tells him everything now. i know i shouldnt complain of that since i broke her trust, but she could atleast tell if she doesnt wnna be friends with me, instead of making me her second hand friend. i have realised my mistake and apologised a million times, buh she doesnt seem to take it in. i dont know what to do, whether i should continue to be her friend and win her trust, or take the hint and not try to be her friend. im also leaving and going to college after the summer, shall i stay in contact with her, or just say my goodbyes.
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reader, pinkbump  +, writes (19 June 2009):
to be honest I think your friend is being really mature about things! after all you did break her trust ? instead of her shutting you out completely shes still being your friend but realises your not the kind of friend she trusts telling secrets too. I think you should win back her trust, this may take a while but Im sure if you dont go about gossiping then it should work !
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