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writes:After a year of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me. I tried to get him back in the first few weeks. Then I completely backed off. Slowly I started hearing from him. maybe once a week. then twice a week. now, we talk about 5x a week. We both initiate contact. We dont talk about us but we talk in that intimate manner only bfs and gfs talk in.Is he interested in me again? Would an ex-boyfriend really talk to their ex-gf this much if he wasnt interested?I know you´ll say just ask him but he´s been sent away overseas for work where he´s been for the past 2 months (when all this started). he´ll be back in 1 month more. Maybe he´s waiting to say something until he´s back? He must realize I have feelings for him still, right? or is this nothing at all?please help!! guys especially. thanks!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): I think he is lonely and misses the emotional support that you used to provide when you two were together. He probably still has feelings for you as it is psychologically impossible to turn those off like a light switch.
The fact of the matter is that he is out of the country for a while and he is talking to you to offset boredom and loneliness and he isn't saying anything to you to indicate that he wants to get back into a relationship with you, so if I were in your shoes I would not get my hopes up or wait around on him to get back.
I would still be dating other men and focusing on my own life and my own goals and not so much on him....that way whatever the outcome, you are still taking care of yourself in this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): I say he is lonely about being overseas and you shouldnt get your hopes up that it will be more than that when he gets back.
I dont think it is intentional on his part - i hope not - but I do think that you must not hope for too much. Just be cautious.
He finds you comfortable. You have a connection. That is good but that may be all it is -
Best of Luck - I do hope it ends like you want it to!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Sounds like this guy still has feelings for you... just keep doing what youre doing and wait and see where it goes.
Honeygirl
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 The fact that he is taking to you indicates that he is still interested, Generally when guys break up its difficult to maintain the kind of relationship your talking about and have a girlfriend at the same time. He knows you have feelings for him. Talk to him when he gets back, you can't do anything before then anyway.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 i think he does still have feelings for you i mean you slowly backed off and he obviously wanted the attention from you and clearly he misses you so yeah i would say he does still have feelings for you.
i mean you guys are now texting eachother 5x a week.
so yeah definately.
hope this helps/
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