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writes:I have finally quit any attempt to be in touch with the man i used to date last year. I don't call him any more to talk only if i want to discuss a practical matter with him. So i rarely call him. He used to call me once after a lot of time, now he also rarely calls me. I have realized that there wasn't a future together with this man and not a possibility of a relationship that would cover me emotionally. So i quit any attempt to stay in touch with him. I don't feel happy however and sometimes i think to call him but i stop myself everytime. I haven't absolutely get over him and i think of him a lot of time. I imagine that he would be with other women and i feel jealous. I can't get over these thoughts. I would like to stop thinking about him any more and don't feel anything about him. I want to stop him thinking with other women because this hurts me. Will i ever get over him absolutely and what can i do to forget him at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): This is a common experience as none of us are light switches that can just turn off our feelings. As time goes on you will think of him less and less. To help time along, try and fill your life with other things so you have less time to think of him. When you find yourself thinking of him, move your thoughts to something else, either do something or go and see someone and DON'T talk about him, otherwise he will be your focus. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Yes, I got a reply from an anonymous Aunt just yesterday about moving on, i strongly suggest what she advised with the link below:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-cheated-but-says-he-loves-me-so.html
Goddluck Sis.
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