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writes:Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have what i believe to be a good relationship of over a year and a half. Exept for one thing....Well, we were talking, and i cant really remember how it came about but he told me he thinks Gemma Atkinson is 'fit as fuck'. This really bothered me, and most people will properly say so what? But its the fact shes blonde with big boobs; i myself am brunette with small boobs. I said this to him and he said that big boobed blondes are his 'type'. You can probably gues this bothered me aswell..?Another thing is, he told me he used to fancy this girl, we'll call her 'K' before he got with me. 'K' also has huge boobs and is blonde.. And for some reason since i found this out its really upsetting me that he talks to her. When we were in town yesterday we walked past a shop, and a girl was wearing leggins with a t shirt, and her bum was visable and as we walked past my bf said "OOOO, HELLOOO" .. and then looked through the shop window at her.Am i right to be feeling frustrated, unattractive and down over this? He tells me he loves me, that im beautiful and sexy to him and that im perfect as i am, hes told me even if gemma atkinson offered herself to him on a plate he would rather be with me.. But should i be ok with him telling me who else he finds sexy?Any views will be helpful and im sorry this is so long. Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): *ORIGINAL POSTER*wow, thanks for all the comments, they really did help put things in perspective for me :)i will deffinately tell him how it makes me feel next time.thanks again. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Yeah, it's happened to me. It sucks. But it's in a guy's nature, especially when they're young, but it never ends. Tell him how it makes you feel and to please not be as vocal about it. He will always check out other women, so ask him to do it when he's on his own or with friends. Just not around you...
My boyfriend also likes busty blondes, and I'm also a small chested brunette. He's also told me he wouldn't trade me for anyone. You'll just have to deal with it, he won't change his attractions or preferences. You have to know that he loves you, and that you are still beautiful, so much that even though you aren't his type, you attracted him. It means that you're drop dead sexy!
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reader, betty_black +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Dont worry, my boyfriend is exactly the same. Its disgusting and horrible, and made me feel down too. But the thing is, hes with you for a reason. He probably could have this K if he wanted or any other busty blonde but he doesnt, because he wants you. And that you should be happy about. Its just a mans way of showing off, they see a girl they like and they brag about it, where as women are much more subtle about it!
You do the same, when some hunk with a six pack comes on tv say phwoooor i wunt say no to that! Then see how he likes that!! Just try laughing it off and not taking it too much to heart because sweety, i'm sure many guys fancy Gemma Atkinson, but i'm also pretty sure she wouldnt look at any of them twice. Plus her tits are fake anyway so dont fret it.
If its really getting you down talk to him about it, but otherwise you just do the same as he does and i reckon he'll soon stop!
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom  +, writes (19 June 2009):
I can under stand how this makes you feel but we all have an opinion. Maybe you don't think your bf is the hottest guy in the world but you wouldn't let him go for Brad Pit so if he does happen to say that agin just tell him to keep it to himself. This ya girl, peace.
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