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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I had a relationship with my Ex for a total of four years, two of which we lived together after having a baby. We broke up rather angrily/violently and she even filed for child support which I now pay monthly. I tried to get us back together earlier on but She insisted on staying apart. we have been apart for nine months during which I have met someone else and gone aout for sometime. The issue is now my ex wants back in. This is really hard because I would do anything for my child. going back makes alot of sense for the child and also financially (read mortage e.t.c), but I have feelings for my current Girlfriend which I cannot ignore. Please assist
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Your ex is an ex for a reason, because the relationship didnt work out and its never worth going back later and trying to rekindle a romance like that, it just doesnt work. People grow out of each other, and you two did too. You have a girlfriend that you love or like right now and are happy with her, so would you really risk that to go back with someone you left because of violence? Your child will be much happier in a happy broken home than an unhappy unseperated home. Just stay as you are and dont risk your happiness.
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