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writes:My girlfriend (of 2 years) is really mad at me for not covering her up at a pool party when my friend pulled off her bikini top and all I did was laugh and well me and my friend (we were both pretty drunk at the time) played monkey in the middle with her. When her friend had to get it from us when she was hiding in the bathroom. My girlfriend was so mad at me she actually a 5 mile walk back to are our place when she got back her top. I got back home 3 hours later she yelled at me even she kick me out. Now I'm staying at a hotel trying to talk to her. How I make it up to her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): Just say that you were drunk , that you're sorry, and besides she has great boobs. Make the flattery not sleazy, hopefully she will smile. And tell her that next time anyone disrespects her you will be there and stop it. and tell that guy off and then tell her that you talked to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Ooops! I'm not surprised shes mad at you, you let your mate take her top and then did not protect her. Imagine if she stole your boxers and all these girls laughed at your willy!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Ouch. You broke the most important rule of being a boyfriend: protect your girlfriend! Her image of you as 'her protector' is now broken and lying shattered in pieces on the floor.
I suggest you do several things:
- Write her a letter that is incredibly apologetic. Do not try to justify what you did in any way. It's unjustifiable. Make sure you promise NEVER to let anything like that happen again. Make it a long long letter.
- Show her you love her. If that means camping outside her house for a week do it. If that means buying her favourite things and leaving them on her doorstep, do it. If that means taking a photograph of yourself naked standing in the middle of a busy street to show you're willing to put up with more humiliation than her, do it. It's probably a long shot but it just might work.
And 3 hours? Dude, what were you thinking????
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): you dont. you let her go and get a good, real, proper bf!
and you remain single until you learn how to a bf!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): why dont you try walking around in front of her and her friends with no pants on and your dick and balls completely exposed so they can all laugh at you.
this probably wont get her back of course- but maybe make you see a little how she might have felt...
nothing more to say except i am sure glad your not my bf! and if he did anything like that i would sure as hell dump your stupid sorry ass!
you deserve being thrown out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): i also agree with babymama99. how would you like it if you lost your apparel when you didnt want to? i know i would know the son of a bitch out. instead of helping you act like a toddler and take the mick. i will be very suprised if you do get her back but sorry is the laest you can do is say to her you are sorry but dont use the i was drunk as an excuse it is no excuse.lay off the drink if it does that to you.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (19 June 2009):
I'm sure she was humiliated and you added to that humiliation. If your friend takes off your girlfriend's top, the last thing you should be doing is allow her to be exposed in front of other people. It really is f'd up, you owe her an apology, and apparently everyone else thinks so too.
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reader, athenas +, writes (19 June 2009):
Us girls always expect our bf's to be like our shield against everyone thats trying to hurt us or humiliate us well you did the opposite. I mean seriously just tell her how dumb you were (you wouldnt be lying) and that your sorry dont tell her "oh its cuz i was drunk" thats like the stupid excuse. Just tell her your sorry for making her feel that way and that you now know how much you hurt her. well Good Luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): I think you have completely gone and destroyed something good here.Would you like it if one of her friends pulled off your swimming trunks and you were insecure about your genitals and didnt give you it back? i think youd be pretty darn pissed.you didnt even bother helping you i mean she had to hide in the bathroom and her friend had to get it back for her for goodness sake.it was totally insensitive of you and you have humiliated you. i am giving you no sympathy here. its your fault however what you can do is leave her alone for a bit,come back and apologise in a email and say something really sweet in it. i think she just needs time to cool off though i can tell by the fact she has chucked you out of the flat/house she is so embarassed and hurt by what you have done.do not say anything like it was a joke as you will only hurt her even more. just apologise over and over saying you were an idiot.i hope you mature a hell of a lot more and actually realise how stupid you have been.
good luck
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and dont do this again ever!
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (19 June 2009):
 How do you make it up to her? by leaving her alone you insensitive brute. you should have pounded that guy who took your girlfriends top off, instead you added to her humiliation. She walks home and you didn't see fit to show up until 3 hours later. I hope she never talks to you again! being drunk is NO EXCUSE! if you can't hold your drink than stay sober.
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