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writes:okay so me and my ex talk, hes with my ex best friend!but i still love him.so about 15 minutes ago i called him becasue when he called i was in the shower. so his cousin was there and he told my ex to describe me and my ex said shes white and shes big.i have major issues with my weight and he knows and he keeps using it against me.im 13 and i weigh 210lbs. but since im 5"5 i look like im 160lbs. and then they started laughing when i didnt find anything funny at all about that.i know i need to lwt him go but i just cant.and my ex always always asks me if im going out with somebody. i mean if he dosent like me like him and his friend say then why does he care if im with somebody righttttttttttt????i have a stunning face, blonde short hair, blue green eyes but not the body everyone is telling me if i was skinny i would be gogeous. so im on a diet. but im tired of guys doing this!what should i do? does he like me or is he asking me if im with somebody because he thinks i cant get a boyfriend??
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reader, Lovestruckduck  +, writes (19 June 2009):
Sweetie, I have been here and not long too long ago either.Firstly you should only be on a diet for you and your health not for other people and not because other people pressure you to be thin you will end up in a mess. If your doing it for yourself though and to be healthy and not thin but fit then its fine!Secondly, that guy sounds to me like every male teenager I've ever met, If he can't stand up in front of people and admit to liking you then is he worth it? If he is not fighting tooth and nail for you why would you want him? Because you are worth far more than that sort of behavior!Love is a funny thing and it can be very very confusing. You need to occupy yourself with other activities like crafty things, a new sport, anything really and if talking to him is making you more confused stop talking to him because he doesn't sound like he nicest guy to be honest. you can talk to me bout it some more if you like I remember teen love, drama very well indeed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Hey, in my experience weight should NEVER be an issue, I'm sure you're gorgeous the way you are! Don't diet just because a couple of immature and tactless guys make a comment, but if you want to do it for yourself, then I hope it works for you!I might not be right, but it sounds to me like your ex is just saying stuff to wind you up and be generally mean, and no-one deserves that! I hope you get over him, it sounds like you can do so much better than someone who says things like that about you!
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (19 June 2009):
 He doesn't like you, he only likes the attention he gets from you. He's so disrespectful that he's making jokes about you to your face. He is also probably talking about you behind your back. Don't be okay with that. A guy who respects you won't make you feel bad about yourself.Stop talking to your ex. You CAN do better than him. Every time you want to call him, remind yourself that you're better than that. When he calls you for another ego boost, don't answer. Respect yourself and don't let anyone treat you badly or put you down.Good luck.
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reader, xo.diamond.ox  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Hey im 13 and i have brown hair, bolonde streaks, brown eyes and pretty skinny. But not like anerexica. Im in fit!But looks dont count its whats in the inside that counts! If this guy likes you he'd be asking u how ur day is and if u want to hangout some weekend. U see i have an ex who still like hanging out with me and kiising me and frenching and he txts me and i know he still like he so if he still likes u he would be doing things like that!!xoxox.... love. xo.diamond.ox
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