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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,how would you describe this? 20 year old literally thinks about girl 24/7 heart starts to pound very fast when girl signs in online/offline looks at picture of girl (that she sent) for minutes on end constantly goes back to message box to re-read messages received from girl (even if they're months old) girl is on mind first thing in the morning and last thing at bedtime has never met girl as she lives in other country has no sexual feelings for girl... cause girl is 14. infatuation? love? obsession? input to be appreciated, trust me :) Reply to this Question
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Sounds like infatuation to me. Love generally is something that blooms from spending a lot of time with someone, intimately and just generally, and falling for them day by day...
Infatuation and obsession are when theres no real chance of being with the person but you cant stop thinking of them anyway!
And then theres just liking someone and wanting to be with them, then getting with them and it falls into love...
So id class this as an infatuation.
Shes too young for you and so you couldnt even get intimate with her. She lives far away and so you'll probably never see her. And you just feel excited towards her like a kid in a candy shop. Just get out there and find girls your own age up for it!
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