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female
age
36-40,
*issy e
writes:I don't know whether the guy is noticing me or he is just turning a blind eye. Here is my story: we attend the same classes by the way we are third year students at the noth west university Mafikeng cumpas, whenever I see this guy I can't consentrate. It's hard for me because he sometimes asks guestions in class. I believe he has a girlfriend and I don't believe in a saying that a person is taken from another person not from a tree. I even dream and fantasise about the guy being mine. I can't stop believing that he has to be mine. To tell the truth this is more than a crush to me I feel I love the guy. How do I get rid of the feelings? Do I really have to get rid of them? What I know at the moment is I just want the guy more than anything else. Please help, I'm dying inside.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): It's easy to imagine, because we want it to happen, that someone is interested in us when in fact they are not. If the guy has a girlfriend then just leave it. And when you find yourself dreaming about him, try to switch that to some imaginary person, not him. Eventually you will get interested in someone else.
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Well its perfectly normal to have crushes, we all have them at some point or another. The important thing to remember is that time generally takes them away. I know that personally the minute i got a real relationship with someone i forgot all about my crushes. So either try talking to him, or try talking to other guys you find attractive. You'll find that given time you'll get over him. Good luck!
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 You need to settle down as your imagination has run far beyond reality. You are infatuated. Nothing real has happened and if you want to see if he is interested then you need to say hello and if he talks o you then you can explore further if he might be interested.
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