New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I work at night, need my sleep, husband loud while I'm trying to sleep, what do I do?

Tagged as: Family, Marriage problems<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (19 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2009)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have to work really at night so I sleep during the day. Well my husband (of 6 months) has horrible habit of being very loud and getting drunk with his annoying friends at our house. When I tell him to keep it down (nicely), he tells me I'm being a drama queen or I'm ruining his party so I just go back to bed. But he makes me be quiet when he gets a hungover or he'll be mad at me. If I don't enough sleep I turn into a complete bitch and start snapping at everyone. Any idea cause I'm getting really fed up.

View related questions: drunk

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009):

Come on. Do you need us to tell you. Your husband??? doesn't respect you. Consider it only 6 months of your life wasted. Ditch him. He's an alcoholic and he doesn't love you at all.

Please seek out a new life with a better man and please be more discriminating with your next man.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Ich_liebe_dich Philippines +, writes (19 June 2009):

Ich_liebe_dich agony auntWell honey you better think it hard. You are just married in 6 months, sooner or later you gonna have a child. Do you think its going to work if its always like this? You need a respect' ask it from him. if he cant give it to you what is the reason of being married to him. I thought respect is one of the most important things in the relation of husband & wife's. I work at night too, and i understand how you feel. 1'st night, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year can you stand it longer than that!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, toxic_oreos United States +, writes (19 June 2009):

toxic_oreos agony aunttell him! hes your husband he needs to have respect for you! and i dont really think this relationship is fair if he tell you to quiet down when hes asleep next time get AT HIM show HIM how YOU feel

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009):

if you have been married for only 6 months and this is his attitude towards you already,whereas the first year of a marriage is supposed to be the most romatic, I don't see how you are going to save it.I think you should brase yourself for the worse.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (19 June 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhen does your husband work?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I work at night, need my sleep, husband loud while I'm trying to sleep, what do I do?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312747999996645!