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*adabryant21
writes: Hey everyone... I was wondering if I could get some advise, I'm not perfect... but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3years. In those 3 years I have waited for him to change. and recently we have been on and off. I love him to death... Im just a very loving person with all the people that surrond me. Im 22 I am about to graduate with my B.A. I met him he had nothing... he has a son, and he always has baby mama drama... I helped him get on his feet when he had nothing, now hes rolling in an escalade, I have been there and taken him to the E.R. all the time hes been sick from his ulcers.. When hes hungry I feed him, when he needs something im always there... and hehas the nerve to tell me that he doesnt like seeing me everyday. and he has a bad attitude. I hate that I love someone that is so inconsidarate and selfish. He always says he is going to change and never does. He really treats me like shit. How can I get over this jerk with no future??? O yeah and hes cheated. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (29 August 2009):
Its real easy. Tell him its over.
It seems to me that you are a very loving, caring, and patient woman. You deserve much better.
Its that simple. He's obviously the kind of person who cannot be happy on his own. When someone is unhappy in their own mind, they are incapable of loving another person.
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