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writes:my friends girifriend and him have been together for about a 2 years and have a kid on the way. well he has not been happy for a year now, he told me last week she is not atractive and anoying, well just this weekend he and me went to a party and had our share of fun.(if you know what i mean). she than the next day took out $300 in his bank account and kept it. he found out and was mad. well that night he went home to her and told her all that was has been on his mind and how she is not looking atractive anymore and she annoys him. she said she would work on it. which she has been. but she is also pregnanat.. well than she found out about us and he lied to her and i told her and he wont admit to it. he says he has feelings for me but also wants to be with her just for the sake of the baby. she is also a crazy girl. she told him the other day that if he left she would kill him and not let him see the kid. when i was told all this, i was shocked. i need to know what to do in this situation. should i stay out of it or just encourage him to tell her himself?? Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (28 August 2009):
Umm...what makes you think he's even being honest to you? She's not attractive because why? She's pregnant, probably feeling like utter shit, and carrying his child? I don't mean to be harsh, but honey, get a clue. He's jerk, and you're the other woman...not good. Like the other poster said, he'll do the same to you. Have some respect for other people (and yourself) and get our of this "relationship." Trust me, if you were pregnant and your boyfriend was acting like him, you would also probably tell him the same thing she did. If anyone is crazy, I'm afraid it's you.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (28 August 2009):
 Hi,
what a mess this is huh?
For a start imagine if you were pregnant and vulnerable to a boyfriend who couldnt care less about you and critized your every move and your appearance. Just try to imagine it that's all.
Is your boyfriend looking so great now?
Sorry mate, but what an A grade arsehole this jerk is. He has got a girl pregnant and is treating her like dirt.
If you think for more than one second do you honestly believe he will be any different to you when he inevitably knocks you up as well?
Think long and hard, you are being very superficial and he is being a right arse.
I feel sorry for the poor girl who is pregnant by this jerk.
Good luck.
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reader, devastated2008 +, writes (28 August 2009):
 Stay out of it... you had no business being in it in the first place. If he's unhappy its his responsibility to either fix it or get out... he's not a helpless victim. He obviously cares enough about her to still be with her and to create a child.Maybe HE's the one making her crazy. I think I would certainly be feeling rather crazy if I was pregnant and my partner was telling me how unattractive and annoying I am. And then to find out he's having an affair when I am in the vulnerable state of pregnancy... I am sorry but this is outright cruelty and emotional abuse.
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