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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been seeing eachother for 3 years with a couple of months break this time last year. When we got back together things were great except he was having money problems so I lent him some. Which I did get back. He's now earning a better wage and on his birthday decided to book a holiday. Although all inc in Africa it was a good deal. I paid half of my share at the beginning of the month, he said he'd paid a bit but never gave me the receipt and now can't find it. We've just received a letter saying the remaining amount is due and only my payment is showing. Do I believe he paid? He got defensive and doesn't seem to understand my worries. If I go ahead with the holiday I have to pay most of it on Monday and then wait for him to pay me back! Its caused arguments now and apparently for him to go I've got to back off and stop moaning! He can't even tell me how much money he has in his account at the moment! If we don't go away I think its the end for us, its all I've been looking forward too in the last few weeks with him acting like he doesn't care about me at all. I don't think it'll work but can't imagine life without him again. Please I need you opinions...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): it's unclear, does he say he doesn't have money to pay or what? Does he want you to pay? Need more clarification
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Something dodgy is going on and it sounds like he hasn't paid anything.
How's this for a suggestion - dump him and take your best mate with you instead. It's likely to cost you the same but will be more fun, and the chances are your best mate will want to return the favour in the future.
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