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writes:ok guys, basically what happened was a few months ago me (im 14) and my cousin (shes 13) were alone. we started making out and one thing led to another and i was performing oral sex on her and she was performing oral sex on me.i want to stress we didnt have sexual intercourse.ever since, everytime i see her i want more, she hasnt brought it up since, but i want to do it again what should i do?
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reader, Josca777  +, writes (31 August 2009):
You're too young for that, despite whether it's with a relative is a whole other issue. I know that genetically the risks aren't very great. But the impact it will have on your personal family life might be worth considering. Plus if ill feelings ever develop you're stuck with that person forever as a blood relative. I'm gonna go with don't do it, even though it may technically not be physically dangerous. Although, you still need to worry about STDs. Why take all of these risks just for momentary pleasure? You're so young and you just need to take things slow.
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reader, celestial  +, writes (31 August 2009):
Cousin's relation has only being taboo in the last century and it's not based on anything but hate. 80% of all marriage in history were between first cousin. 20% of the actual world population is married with their cousin. Cousin have less miscarriage pregnancy. Cousin relationship is NOT incest.Joseph and Mary, mother of Jesus are suspected to be first cousin.Unless there's a genetic decease running down your family they are no more risk than a non-cousin couple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): I know what you shouldn't do and thats your cousin. Just like Steve said, by performing any sexual acts with your cousin you are jeopardizing your bond between the whole family. This little secret you two have WILL destroy your relationship with your parents and everyone you are genetically associated with. Cousins might be legal but its still incest dude and the fact she's 13 could give the impression you took advantage of her( I don't think you did but I'm just telling you all the bad things that could happen here man) And if you REALLY wanna do it again why don't just wait till you're 16 and you can legally have sex and find yourself pretty girl(preferably outside the family) to get oral with. AND IF YOU CAN'T WAIT THAT LONG JUST MAKE SURE YOU DON'T DO IT WITH CUZINS!!! PLEASE CONSIDER THIS MAN, GOOD BYE, GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): hi. as steve s said, you are both still very young and have lots to learn about physical and emotional experience.. it might be that you are feeling attatched to your cousin because of the fact that you did something sexually together, because emotion comes with sex. but in reality you might not even have feelings for her. also, remember that she is your cousin, so be careful how you go about this because it will have a massive effect on the people around you. im not saying bury your feelings, you should never do that. but before you act on anything and do it again, or even tell your cousin how youre feeling, be sure youre doing the right thing. hope this helps, AAJ.
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