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I'm not sure the relationship is more serious, but I don't want to be just used for sex

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Question - (28 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ollfacexo writes:

Before I left college I was sleeping with a boy for a couple of months. We then broke up for summer and we carried on talking but because we live far away from each other I had basically stopped really thinking about him. I saw him recently out of the blue and we ended up sleeping with each other again. I'm now going back to college and he is talking about sleeping with each other again. I like him and I don't want this to turn into a friends with benefits deal. I'm not even sure if i want anything more serious but I don't just want to be used for sex. Has anyone got any suggestions for how I can make sure he see's me as something more serious? I know its quite likely I'm going to end up having to tell him how I feel but has anyone got any advice? Should I play hard to get and not be so readily available for sex?

Thanks in advance :)

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A male reader, Elliiott France +, writes (30 August 2009):

Elliiott agony auntTalk to him about the matter, Ask him a few questions, Like : "What do you want out of our relationship ?"

Or maybe he's just this way because he really really does love & miss you, You'll never know until you ask ..

Or you could maybe try not to have sex for a few weeks, And see how he reacts, But remember, Don't let him force you to do nothing you don't want to do !

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