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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My guy friend has not been talking to me. I just got an AIM and thought that I would IM him. I didn't want to tell him who I really was because I thought he would ignore me on that to so I talked to him on there and he figured out it was me. He talked to me for a half an hour that day. I was surprised and he said that he wasn't mad at me and he joked around with me and was nice. Why if he doesn't hate me would he ignore me all the time if we are still good friends? I don't get it at all! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (28 August 2009):
Im not sure why he reacts this way but after reading your post dont you think you should let it go and simply be friends? You obviously get on but handle it in the right way rather than having to play games all the time, the more confusion you add to the situation the more mess therell be and youll loose any kind of friendship.
He doesnt hate you and if you want to know why he ignored you simply ask for the truth, sometimes guys handle situations differently and mixed messages are sent out in all directions! It causes so much more than needs be, why not just enjoy being friends?
Best of luck
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