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writes:I would like to hear some revenge stories for a cheating ex and the affair partner... I promise I am not planning on pursuing anything... just want to live vicariously through your story. So what is your best revenge story?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): OK basically he worked at the hospital with me and we kinda exchanged info off a dating site but we first talked at work first and we started seeing one another and things were fine but I was super shy around him and didnt now what to say cus im a pretty shy person and then a month he came online with msn names like "I love stephanie" and then he started ignoring me so i ignored him and he didnt know why and i wrote him all these emails cause he kept leading me on and stuff and acting like everything was fine.but I was so stressed out about the other girl and he wouldn't tell me anything about what was going on so I really didn't have a choice I needed to know the truth so I made a fake msn to find out he was in love with this online gf who was his one true love but they never even met and he said he had been loyal to her or whatever and then things didnt work out and he cut me out becuase he felt we had no chemistry... i aslo gave him a fake phone # which was my friends bf he would text and ask out for drinks and shit all the time and my friends bf got so fed up he told him off and at that point he thought it was the online gf and got super mad.so then.. we got back together and things were fine he got fired from the hospital for slacking and he wants to put his degree to use and he kept telling me he ddint want a relationship or whatever and thigns were okay but the communication was iffy and then one day he told me he felt really bad about this but he got drunk and did stuff with a friend it wasnt sex and now she thinks shes pregnant there was only close rubbing involved and then he just pretty much cut me loose wouldnt meet up to talk face to face or let alone let me know what was going on so that was pretty much what set me off. And he was playing with with several others so this is what I did for revenge...I got my former co-worker to text him and find out a bunch of information like if he had any kids, he basically told me stuff about his online gf and was saying she was the one for him, and he had been loyal to her and there was nobody else... so we pretended we texted the wrong number and he asked the fake texting girl to meet up so I basically stood him up.And the next day I give him my fake msn and I basically called him out on msn for everything next I e-mailed the online gf told her EVERYTHING including chat logs that prooved we were together then him and his friend started texting me and insulting me and im just like whatever i did the right thing I told the truth and he was lying to his online gf saying I was crazy obbessed but she didnt believe him she believed me and was thankful I e-mailed her...and we both learned a lot from each other apparently he told her about the pregnant scare girl and he also had sex with a woman that had baby but those are only ones we know of... and i told her i did all that stuff to get the truth and he started like taking stuff I said and twisting it around and telling people personal information about me but the girl was really cool about it...we talked for hours and answered alot of questions and stuff and i found out he was with her sicne sept he was with me since oct. so then later that night my bff called his friend to tell him off for the mean texts he sent me and then tom took the phone from him and was like I never meant to hurt her I just never felt a connection with her with like conversations or whatever.and she started telling him this online gf is prob a fake if she wont meet him after almost a year and he like didnt want to give up on her and he was so pissed after what i ddi he wouldnt drink with his buddies. And soon afterwards he started leaving me threatening voicemails threatening to charge me with character indifferentiation and saying lots of mean things to me.and then he would always text me bff saying iw as annoying and he was trying to get close to her to get revenge on me...but she hates him as much as I hate him so basically about 3 months ago he texted her and was like "I really need someone to talk to." and the next day hes on POF looking for a soulmate saying he hates infidelity and dishonesty so I basically sent him this.... "Wow. I can'tbelieve you have the nerve to text my bff and tell her you need someone to talk to. Are you a moron? what makes you think she would give you the time of day after what you did to me? I have been staying out fo your life why can't you stay out of mine? btw, you say you dont like infidelity and dishonesty but it was OK for you to do it to me? anyone who gets involved with you is cursed. Goodbye."Turns out he also gave me chlamydia and he went to get tested and didn't have it but my doc said it doesnt show in men so then he kept saying i could of given it to him. I said I never slept with anyone else during that time period. But how else would I have gotten it? I told him I know he was getting around and he said with who... im like the pregnant scare girl and you also had sex with a woman who has a kid (online gf told) me and then I told him that the online gf told me what happened in detail between them and he couldnt say anything back to me cause he knew it was true. I also told the online gf about the STD and then he was threatening to come and find me at work etc. He never replied to that and haven't heard from him since although he was viewing me on POF. He paid for what he did to me and i don't regret it - I only did it to find out the truth and to show him how it feels to be hurt and I succeeded since I obvisually broke up him and his dream girl.
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reader, Nichole13 +, writes (28 April 2010):
S me and my husband had a groupr of friends that we formed over a year and a half. We became really close really quick, spending at least 4 night a week hanging out at a bar that we all have frequented for year. Me and my husband became espically close to one girl in the group. She ended up becoming my best girl friend i ever had, until one day I got word that her and my husband might be having an affair. Instead of confronting them (i knew they would just deny it) I laid low for a while and bought a spy camera. It took 3 long month but the patience finally paid off. One night she stayed over the house and the next morning I lied and siad I had to go drop off a paper at school. So as I left I turned the spy camera on.Sure enough Not long after I left they went after each other. Still after this I waited and got more and more video. After about a month of video taping their affair I made a sort of collogue video. I even put stuff in there were she said how much she cared for me and of him telling me I was his life.Well I am a very shy girl. I cant even get up to do a karoke song. But I went to the bar that weekend prepared to face my fears. I looked at the owner of the bar and said "if I slipped a video in on her big screen while I sang would she be mad. (she knew what was going on.) So the time came and quitely I got up to sing my song (repilian-nine inch nails.) Once I started to sing everybody in the bar was amazed that I was actually up there and I wasnt that bad. At that instant I turned the power button on the big screen and up pops my best friend and my husband, in every position you could imagined. My husband ran out the door. My friend just sat there stunned. Once it was over I walked up to her and said "really do you think i was that stupid. You know not to mess with a womans man and this is what happens when you mess your your best friends man." Well I dumped them both and now the bar that they called there home is now there living nightmare.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): my friend found out her man was cheating on her and she graffitied LOVE RAT on his door and cut up all his clothes.
It wanst him who found the scene of carnage but the one of the the other 'girls' he was lying to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for the antidotes... appreciate the petty immaturity... :)
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (28 August 2009):
 Back in the early 80's I was engaged to a girl that I really did love very much. There wasn't anything I would not do to make her happy, well except feed her drugs.She got hooked on crack because her sister turned her onto it.The drug ruined our relationship. Soon I came home and found her with some guy and a fight broke out. Anyway, so the relationship was over. She decided she wanted to party and hang out. I decided I couldn't take being lied to. I didn't care so much that she had been cheating on me. But I did care that she lied to me about so many things, sold some of my stuff to pay for crack, and slept with other men to get crack.The point is, I left and she told me she never wanted to see me again. Okay. Good.So about a year later she calls me up and wants to meet me. She has me chasing all over the place trying to find her because she said it was really important.Well we finally meet up at this restaurant and she needed me to lend her $80. Well that was the best $80 I ever spent! She owed me money to go out and get a gram of coke so she could cook up some crack.And about another year later, she asked me to help her out. She was in a lot of trouble. A real lot of trouble as in she was busted for trafficking with her coke dealing boyfriend.She wanted me to put up my house to post bond for her.My response, "Sure babe. Soon as you pay me back that $80 I lent you."I never heard back from her again, almost. I did see her on "Cops" though and about 15 later I saw her working at a grocery store. She'd just been released from prison.So the point I am getting down to is, I didn't get any revenge, I just let Karma get her.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (28 August 2009):
Well, I am fortunently far too petty to be mature and deal with situations like an adult. I dated a girl once who was fun, she was attractive, but she also was a caniving bitch. When we I left her and apparently broke her heart she decided to try to hurt me. Now that being said, she found it funny to run around banging out my friends like they were dominoes and just one by one. Boom, boom, boom. Right, Then she takes it a step further, and tells people my friends of my "infantile penis".. granted during every break up the mans penis tends to shrink , what three, maybe four inches when your ex desribes it?So enough is enough. When approached for the tenth time from a friend about what they had heard. I decided to settle score. Now I am adequate in my dimensions, so I dont feel intimadatd. But at party with our mutual friends my ex and I both attended. I shouted."Its not that my penis was too small, her f-in vagina had an echo!!!! "The room burst into laughter and her face turned bright red. and she called me an ass hole. I know I am petty, and it wasnt needed to be so juvenille about the whole situation.. but by God did it feel good to settle the score.-iydm
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI liked Elpigaro's response. I agree with everyone's responses and that's how I conduct myself however... sometimes in the deep of the night I wish I was just mean enough, lol.
Still would like to hear the revenge stories though... sorry sometimes I need the dark humor they provide.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (28 August 2009):
 Hi Hunny
I dont think you will get many telling you these kind of storys, I think revenge is not sweet at all...I no when you have been hurt you feel anger and want to hurt the other person but I believe that you being the better person and learning from this is the best way forward..Thats my advise TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Although a lot of things would seem just or fun to do. I think the best revenge is to truly believe "good riddance" and live your life well and happily. Eventually, you will discover they did not. Cheater rarely I would even say never really end up happy. But unfortunately, those who are cheated on sometimes never get over it remain bitter and live unhappily. That is the saddest thing. I know two such stories where men cheated on their wives and left them and their families for someone else the cheaters were both incredibly selfish and I don't think happy. They have no or bad relations with their kids and don't seem to be in bliss with their new partners. But the wives they left also had a bad go of it financially and remained bitter and alone . So in a way they lost the most. :( the BEST revenge is to live your life to the fullest and happiest. Cheaters are never satisfied and rarely feel remorse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Well my best story is that since my ex dumped me, Ive travelled the world, snowboarded on three continents. Holidayed abroad frequently, climbed the alps, done triathlons and bought and learned to ride my own sportsbike.
May not be what your looking for but the best form of revenge is to have your ex go, Damn it I had my chance and Ive blown it.
Rememeber your dignity is priceless.
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