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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I find myself in a bit of a dilema and would like some advice/help. I'm very nervous around guys and never feel good enough for them, but there is a guy I really really like and he is really keen on me for some reason, we have kissed but I felt really self consciouss, he wants us to meet up again to pick up from where we left off, which I really want to do but because I am a bit well 'frigid' (I am) and haven't got a clue how to act around the opposite sex, I am a little worried, he just wants some fun which I want as well but I am scared because I haven't got a clue what I am doing and I am a little insecure about how I look, everyone says it comes natural and it just doesn't with me, is there something wrong with me? I mean I know there is nothng wrong with being a virgin but when a really hot guy is interested and you like him, I'm just really cold. HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Relax, thats all. Okay first off you gotta understand that there isn't any one way to act round the opposite sex, thats what makes dating so fun. Everyone is an individual and as such, everyone has their individual habits, routines and rituals. What I mean is, you may think you have no idea what you're doing in the presence of a male but sub-consciously you are doing it and the fact that he wants to meet up again means what you are doing is right. Second thing is, if you weren't scared then you would be one of very few people you aren't nervous when they are linking someone they are attracted to. Once you are with him you'll be fine, just enjoy yourself and keep your worries to a minimum and you'll be fine. Lastly you should know, there is o guy who you are not good enough for. Now, go get him tigress : )
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