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anonymous
writes:i know i have feelings for girls but the thing is dunno if im bi or gay. i think guys are nice looking but not attractive really. i've never been totally comfortable wit kissing guys either. so.. am i totally gay? i dont wanna b a freak
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reader, Perspicacious  +, writes (28 August 2009):
Gay, straight or bisexual - No matter who it is that you find you are attracted to it won't make you a "freak". If you are thinking it will, you could probably benefit from discussing your feelings about it with an expert - there are lots of LGB advice centres / helpines for young people so why not give one of them a ring?
However, the best thing you can do for now is remain open minded about your sexuality, and accept it takes time to discover yourself.
You will almost certainly find that this question resolves itself naturally - you will meet people that you want to date and kiss, and they will turn out either to be boys, girls or even a mixture of both.
Good luck!
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reader, Karlin24  +, writes (28 August 2009):
 Alot of people go through these emotions at your age. It doesn't put you in a catagory. You are finding out what interests you. Go with the flow, experiment, and whatever you're going to be, you will. Men and women experience the same thing, it's all about learning who you are. Don't worry. Your heart will let you know what's right for you, and you could never be a freak if you're following what feels right for you, regardless of whether it's straight, gay or bi
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reader, funnyintit +, writes (28 August 2009):
 to be honest the way your talking you sound straight to me,there's no harm in thinking fellas are nice looking.. what situations have you kissed a guy?
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