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writes:I've always loved to have a girl to share my life with but anytime i meet a girl i am interested in, i do find it difficult to approach her even to the point of getting her phone number cos i don't know what to say. plz how do i approach them? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Be nice. All you have to do is strike up a conversation about something trivial like " Cute dog you got there". Obviously saying cute dog when there's no canine i sight would be stupid but the point I trying to convey is that you have to be quite creative( I recommend you look at your surroundings, what she's wearing and even what she's doing for inspiration. And just like that that you've initiated a conversation and from hear you can ask questions where are you from, where do you live blah, blah, blah... you know, the questions you ask but don't really care about : ) After these questions( WHICH ARE VITAL BECAUSE THEY GIVE YOU AN INSIGHT INTO WHAT SHE LIKES IF ACTUALLY LISTEN SO DON'T SKIP THEM) you can ask for her number.REMEMBER: Don't think of the number as a sacred scroll, try to the think of it as a numerical sequence which,when entered into a communications device allows the user to converse with another individual over long distance...it's just a number o don't worryBe confident, charming, yourself and you'll be fine.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (28 August 2009):
Girls are really diferent, they dont all look for the same guy, some girls will see you shyness as a quality they like, the best thing you could do is be honest with them every girl appreciates that. Start on light humour e.. im not very good at this type of thing... or im not usually this forward but... just to start up the conversation. No girl will ever judge you for giving it all youve got.
Everyones nervous in this type of situation, even the over confident cocky ones that simply use their voice in hope of hiding the worry that hits us all when we see someone we like. Approaching girls is tricky but everyone has a unique way of doing it, stick with honesty and an easy converstaion and your likely to get her attention. Also i wouldnt jump straight in and ask for the number, i think part of the excitment comes in the game before giving out numbers, try talking to her getting to know her before asking out right, youll gain more respect from that.
Best of luck
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