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writes:is my wife cheating on me she has been in a job for 12 years she used to come home at 5:30 on the dot till lately she has not been getting in till about 6 reason i post this because my mate went into the news agents were she works and the bosses son was out the back and he said he could hear them kissing it took them about 1min to come and serve him. so i let it go for a week or 2 then i turned up for a cup of tea and entered the shop to find no one there so i went to the kitchen were i could here noises and the wife was just fastining here pinny and he was very red faced and could not look at me eye to eye my wife said they were just having a laugh. i dont know what to think and she as started wearing short mini skirts to work something she as never done before am i just been silly or am i right to suspect them of having affair
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reader, Ifyoudontmind  +, writes (28 August 2009):
I hate that feeling of being paranoid, and like you cant trust anyone. Here is what I would suggest. Can you send a spy of some sort.
Some one of your friends she doesnt know to just sort of observe.. I know that its shady to have to do so.. But just to be safe.
If nothing happens, nothing happens and you can rest assured. But if your spy catches something... youve got a problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): It sounds like she's running a game on you my friend. However, not to ignore the fact that you need solid proof in order to build a case against her. Just play it cool, don't make it too obvious that you suspect anything because then she'll find other tactics in order to play you. Keep in touch with the friend that initially told you in the first place, i'm sure he/she will want to keep an eye on this situation as it unfolds, and keep you informed. Good luck, and when you've got the evidence you need, drop her like a bad habit.
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reader, obsticalfree +, writes (28 August 2009):
I would say your suspicions are correct. I tend not to pick up on things like that easily and have to be hit over the face with it to realize. That is what has happened to you, you know it is happening. I say confront her about it and get it out in the open. If for some reason your suspicions are incorrect just thinking it is so is going to cause you to be upset with her and hurt the relationship anyway. Watch her when you confront her you will know by her actions and what she says if it is true or not. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Yes it sounds suspiciously like they are having an affair... maybe not yet sexual, just kissing and groping....
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (28 August 2009):
 yes, suspect away! But get some real proof before talking to her about it. I would get someone who works there to find out for me. Maybe someone who has seen them fooling around.
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