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writes:Ok, theres two things i need help with. theres this girl that i rly like. im gd mates with her too. i asked her out a while ago and she said that she didnt feel that she knew me well enough to have a relationship with me, even tho ive known her for nearly a year, is she telling the truth or was she making it up? the second thing is, even though she has said no, i cant stop thinking about her, ive even dreamed about her and its driving me crazy, what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): ive just had this today"i dont want a relationship" im confused? we talk we meet up,get on kiss? is she scared to commit? what gives?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Hi. Well there is no way of knowing exactly what she is thinking, but the thing that comes to my mind is, im a girl (obviously) and if a guy told me he liked me, and I liked him, I wouldnt say I didnt want a relationship with him if it wasnt true. why make that up? so it may well be that she genuinley doesnt feel the same. Ive been in this situation myself, I had a good friend I liked and I told him, and he said we were too good friends to take it any further. But the only way to find out is to talk to her again. Just ask her what you want to know, does she really not feel a thing back for you? see what happens. If she still says no, then try putting yourself out there for other girls. Stay friends, friends is better than nothing. You wouldnt want to ruin the friendship, even though you obviously like her a lot, if she says she just wants to be friends (what a horrible phrase to hear!) you will have to simply get over it. I dont mean that in a harsh way, but its the truth, difficult as it is. We've all been there, liking someone who doesnt feel the same, and eventually we move on. I did and im sure you can as well. But the first step is speaking to her. I hope this helps, sorry if its rather blunt but i always think thats the best way. AAJ.
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