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writes:My bf refuses to take me over his place? What does this mean?!!!!Does he live with another girl? Reply to this Question
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (31 August 2009):
 Seriously, this guy sounds 100% bad news. Don't stalk him, cause you might get shot by someone. I'm not kidding. You know he deals guns and probably deals drugs. You definitely need to leave him and get away regardless of whatever he is hiding. He is bad enough already.
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reader, remarkable +, writes (31 August 2009):
remarkable is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell ive known him for about 5 months already. Whenever I ask him why he hasnt invited me over his place he seems to bring up different excuses all the time like "because my roomate is always there and i dont want u feeling umcomfortable","we are always out doing things and it never comes to my mind to take u", or he says he is going to take me and he never does. Not such along time ago we had an argument about it because i felt he was hiding something from me, I confronted him about it and he said that about 2 yrs ago he had a girl living in his place and she was a drama queen so they have gotten into an argument and she accidentally felt and he was put in jail for like about 6 months because she accused him of hitting her which he claims is not true. He said he fears that the same thing is going to happen again.
I really dont know what to believe. When he made me his girlfriend im pretty sure he had to have in mind that one day he had to invite me over his place and still he hasnt.I have already given him enough time to get to know me and feel comfortable enough for him to take me over.
When we first meet he told me he sold weapons, to this point i have a feeling its not weapons is drugs, because he has a history of drug selling when he was younger so im thinking that could be it. He's 27 yrs old, he could be married, still living with an ex girlfriend or idk what else. Most people advice me to stalk him, but i dont know if thats a good idea. I feel like ive done enough to find out but i just havent found out why he wont take me.Should I just let him go? or should I stalk him?
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reader, Failed relationships +, writes (29 August 2009):
Why does he say he can't take you to his house? Is he embaressed, have a bf/wife, or does't have a home? You need more reasoning as to why....
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (29 August 2009):
Well, ask him why. It may be he still lives with his parents or his place is really messy. He may be ashamed of his living situation or has a roomate he doesnt want you to meet. It could be a number of reasons, so I wouldn't jump to conclusions. But find out for sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009): It either means he thinks your'e a stalker and will continually bother him if you know where he lives or he has something to hide-he could be using u and then planning to do a disapearing act or he could be married,living with someone,wanted by the police,an illegal immigrant,he could have an exceptionally messy house...whatever it is, trust me this guy is likely to be dodgy-I am currently in a serious situation which started with a guy who wouldn't take me to his house or reveal too much about himself-turns out he and his friends are part of some gang that has been stalking me for the last 3 years,lord only knows why-I think they might be some sort of pimping network-anyway,back to the point,avoid this guy at all costs,as there is a possibility he is dangerous-youv'e been warned!
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