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*iamond27
writes:I'm 27 and had been seeing this 19 year old guy for four months. We had quite a pleasant relationship and I grew very fond of him. Then suddenly he wanted to end it because he said that he can't handle the emotions. He comes from a tough past and seems to prefer painful situations. After 2 months we're meeting as friends again and we keep picking on each other playfully. But now he's back with his x boyfriend whom he was with for 10 months before he knew me and who he had a hard time "getting over". It's all getting very confusing and I can't understand why suddenly he's insisting on being my friend. Even though I accept all that's happened it's very hard sometimes because I still have strong feelings for him.
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reader, thehype  +, writes (29 September 2008):
"The only way two once lovers can be friends is if they're both still in love, or never were"
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (26 September 2008):
 some people need drama and attention...
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (26 September 2008):
 Possibly because he wants you as a fall back if it doesn't work with the ex?
Guys can be attracted to complicated lives as well as women can, and I personally would steer clear of someone like that. But its easy for me to say.
If its not comfy for you staying mates, then dont. Exes can be a pain in the rear. It could end up like a game of ping pong between you and his ex. Be careful.
C xxxxx
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reader, hello kitty 101  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 all i can tell you is that has feelings for you but some poeple haves a hard time letting go of past exs its nothing you did its not your fault so dont thik its ok to stil friends but you should try dating other people dont wait on him thats what he wonts you to do so if it dont work with the person hes with he is going to come back dont wait move on but you can still be his friend you know someone to talk to dont leet him think you need him good luck to you
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