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*rancesca69
writes:Alright,my boyfriend just left me for another girl.He gave me no reason why he left me. This girl that he is with now is pregnant by his uncle.I told him that i am pregnant and he told me that he dont care to loose his number. I thought by him knowing i was pregnant he would come back to me because thats what we both wanted was a baby. I still love him very much and i really dont want to raise this baby without him. He told me that he loved me and wanted to marry me,but one day i guess he just decided he didnt want me anymore. So what should i do? Fight for him back or just move on without him?
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reader, kle7 +, writes (26 September 2008):
Let him go. If he just up and leaves you for no reason and moves in with another girl, he obviously doesn't care or love you at all. I don't really buy that whole ordeal about that girl being pregnant by his uncle either, it's probably his. I know that may be hard to take in right now, but it's most likely true.Don't embarrass yourself by trying to "fight" for a man that doesn't even respect you enough to atleast tell you that he's seeing someone else. MOVE ON!
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (26 September 2008):
 If this man has chosen another woman and you are carrying his child I think you need to fight for your baby's rights before you fight for this man. He will owe you financial support for this child that you will raise without him if you chose to do so. And maybe he will want to be a father for this child. If you give the baby up for adoption or chose another alternative, he will need to be part of that decision. This man has to be an adult and help you get through this decision. As far as fighting for him, that never works. He has to be the one to make the freewill decision to be with you or long term it will never work and remember that you are bringing a child into this relationship.
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