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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,For the past three years now, I've had this fantasy of asking my best guy friend, Jason (who has also been my crush for the duration of that time), to be my date for the prom. Well, junior year has finally come around, and I still have intentions of asking him to share that special night with me. The date is set for April 25. My question for you is whether or not you think that it would be acceptable for me to go ahead and ask him. Several of my friends have encouraged me that I need to go ahead and get it done to insure that no one else beats me to him (it's a high possibility, believe me...he's a real Prince Charming). But I don't know if I should do it just yet or not. I was planning to wait and ask on New Year's Day, which is around the time that people usually start asking people to be their dates and shopping and whatnot. But I really want to make sure that no one else beats me to him. If I had to stand by and watch one of my friends live out my fantasy, my whole entire prom would be absolutely RUINED. Basically, I want to make sure that I get there first, but I don't want to seem too eager or anything. What do you think I should do?Signed,Stuck
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reader, Mommy Dearest +, writes (27 September 2008):
 well, I agree with your friends. you should ask him now. You are worried about someone snatching him. Just tell him that You asked so early was because you wanted to make sure that no one else asked him first..
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