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What should I do about my ex who says has feelings for me but... loves his girlfriend? She has treated him horribly!

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Question - (26 September 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, *ellieAnne writes:

I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years that ended a year ago. We have a 3 year old son together, and he is now dating a girl he cheated on my with.

For the last year he has been telling me he still has strong feelings for me. Over the last 2 months, we've have taken things to another level, emotionally and physically. We've talked about getting back together a lot, but at the moment he's in a situation where he and his girl have things invested in each other, and he does love her.

I don't want him to break up with her for me, I want him to do it for himself as she has treated him horribly. I believe he is sincere in what he says he feels for me. I will always love him and I won't ever love someone like I love him. I know that what im doing is risky, and I could end up hurt again in any predicament with him, and that's why im posting here.

What should I do? If I absolutely need to drop him, how can I do it? I've tried so many times. I feel that I need to go with my heart, which is crying for him. I have no control over it at this point and I don't see myself happy without him.

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