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*iolette
writes:Can anyone help? im 23 and have been in a serious relationship for almost 2 years and living together for about 1 year.Recently i have been beginning to wonder if i mean as much to him as he says i do.I have depression and despite this he pushes me into situations that i am not comfortable with, on times when i have refused he has used his young son as an excuse to guilt me into it. He does not seem interested in listening to my problems, his idea of dealing with it is to have a tantrum and try to walk out of the flat. There is a 12 year gap between us and over the last year we have gone through some REALLY tough times after a lengthy court case for his son. Ireally want us to work but im starting to wonder if he feels the same. Should i stay with him and try to work through all this? or should i walk away now? PLEASE can someone help, ive been struggling with this for months. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Star_07  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 I have to agree with supermum. When I read this question, I couldnt really give you an answer. It seems you are being really vague. Someone who doesnt listen to you isnt showing you love and respect but at the same time, I dont know what is setting him off. Also, it is unclear about the situations you are in with him. I really hope you are getting help with your depression as it is difficult for the people around you as well. Maybe you can explain your situation a little more or give us specific examples.
Best of Luck!
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reader, supermum +, writes (26 September 2008):
 you really need to talk to him babe, it does not seem to me as if he cares, but you have not specified what kind of situations he pressures you to go into. i hope you can sort this out.
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