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writes:please help me! i had this boyfriend 5 years ago and we split up, but still said 'hi' if we saw each other! we both had other relationships in the last 5 years, but now im single and so is he. we keep meeting up but hes only after 1 thing from me an when he gets it he takes me home. ive tried askin him out but he says he isnt sure hes told me he loves me but im unsure whether hes just saying that. i love this guy so much and dont no how to win his heart.every one has told me that hes a waste of space, but i really cant get my mind off him!
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reader, hello kitty 101  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 ok yes you are wasting your time hes not worth it there are better guys out there who do wont to be with you but on the other hand try sitting him down telling him how you and tell him not to lead you on if he dont wont you then he needs to tell you if he dont wont dont never see or speak to him cause you will never get over him he has you were he wonts you your making yourself look desparte show him wat he is mke you cant live without him thats what men wont show him you dont need him show him what hes missing show him that there are other men that wont you show him what he could have but he screwed that if that dont work then he does not love you good luck
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (26 September 2008):
oh no !you have been sucked in to the "booty call "or what some guys like to call "the jump off", which means in a nutshell, after the sex he jumps off& takes you home...ofcourse he is after only 1 thing...get rid of this guy its to late for your ego but your pride still has a chance...some guys will tell you anything to get a piece... trust me as soon as he meets another girl who he thinks is better than you he's gonna haul ass but then again he does that anyway... sorry if I'm being to blunt...girl if you like the sex treat it as such... he's not lying to you because remember actions speak louder than words... what do his actions show you? wake up!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 September 2008):
If he's just after one thing and won't even be your boyfriend then you are not going to make him fall in love with you.
He knows how you feel about him and yet he is still happy to use that to get sex.
If all your friends and family are saying the same thing, that he is a waste of space, then I don't think you are going to hear any different from people on the internet.
Listen to your friends and stop seeing this guy.
Good Luck!! xx
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