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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a issue. I'm a 22 yr old female my husband is 34 I've been with him for 7 years married for a year. I love my husband but we have a problem sex. We use to have sex on a regular bases but now its once maybe twice every 2 weeks ( I'm young I need more) and it don't last long we've tried viagra and cialis it worked I had the time of my life. He started to complain about headaches afterwards and I understand. I don't know what to do so when he do want to have sex now I just roll over and give him the cold shoulder or I'll turn off the lights (so I can roll my eyes) and let him do what he have to do its getting so bad I thought of cheating but I know its not worth my friendship or marriage so I masturbate on a regular basis. I've tried everything lingerie getting dressed up he be excited and ready but its over before it start. I don't want to leave but I'm really not happy sexually is there anything else to do.!!!
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reader, springluv2 +, writes (9 June 2009):
We all live life worrying about not being pleased, being unhappy but we love a person, I was told if a man can please you in most aspects of a relationship he is a keeper. But take my advice and read steve harveys book, act like a lady think like a man. When men cheat they forget about it like it never happened, when woman cheat or think about it our emotions get involved unlike men. My bf is a disaster in bed. I cheated to please myself sexually because im not goingto be miserable because your relationship goes sour however I didn't let my emotions get involved. Trust me when something is missing ina mans like from conversation to sex he will go for it. I did and im happy. Really its up to you be unhappy or find happiness. Steve harver says woman need 4 men in our life. A gay one to gossip with and shop, a mandingo to lay us out in bed, a old guy to spend money on us and a ugly guy to romanticise us. Believe that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): foreplay and oral sex is most important to start intercourse
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): The headaches are probably from the increased blood pressure. Viagra and Cialis are stimulants. Ask your doctor about maybe adding a blood thinner to the mix.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): Well,
I wouldn't recommend "cheating" on him. He's your husband. But I do think that you should tell him how you feel and maybe he will tell you why this is happening.
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