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writes:Seriously stuck. There's this guy who's been talking to me alot lately, just like 'hi' and the occasional flirting, i think he fancies me as he always asks if i've got a boyfriend and has commented on me being 'fit' and 'saucy minx'. He's also got pretty friendly with one of my exboyfriends which isn't particularly good.Anyhow, today he seemed really different like sleezy.. he came and sat next to me outside work, waiting for the bus and was trying to get my number, (im pretty good at playing hard to get) but he tried to unbutton my shirt and was like groping me, IN PUBLIC. He also made comments about us having sex.. I think he was joking but.. well i was trying to chill out, but still felt discomfort of him doing this. Was i overreacting or has he gone too far or maybe comes off strong? I know i didn't lead him on as i'm not that interested in him.. Now i don't know what to do because i see him every single day when i wait for the bus. Please help?
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reader, michelleAKAmandi  +, writes (27 September 2008):
 Sweetie, chilling out can send the wrong signal to a disrespectful guy that merely wants in your pants. You should let him know where you stand the very next chance you get. You don't have to be cruel to him, however; I would if he attempted to unbutton my blouse. Just tell him straight out that you are not interested in him like that.
What you feel shouldn't make you uncomfortable to be around someone. So don't let yourself go through another day worrying of what he might do or try. Stop it now before he does something even worse.
Hope this helps...
Michelle
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (27 September 2008):
Blank him. Any man who doesn't even respect you enough to not try and molest you in public is someone you do not want to be around.This guy is pushing to see how far he can get, not to try and go out with you.Tell him to piss off.Good Luck!! xx
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