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writes:Ok well Im a young girl.I have a boyfriend in the philippines I love him dearly. But about 5 months into our relationship i began dating a guy here, is this really wrong what should I do??I cant see myself with the guy here, but I just need some love if that makes sense.How do I break up with the guy here if I have to??help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): honestly,
im pinoy too and currently going through the same thing somewhat. basically, if you can't see yourself with or marrying the guy here then you need to break it off. however, you need to sit down and see if you're really in love with the person in pi because if you truly did love him; you wouldn't cheat or continue to see someone else. I know how hard LDR's are and i understand how you need attention, love, or companionship. the thing is, if the guy in pi doesn't move here soon then you're bound to cheat or see someone else and the cycle will keep continuing so if you seriously can't committ to him because of the distance then you need to just end it. Because whether you realize it or not, although you love the guy in pi, the problem is the long distance. hope this helps.
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