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writes:Hi. Me and my boyfriend been together for a year but we were always on and off mainly because i knew he was seeing other girls and i saw other boys. I found out from people he was seeing but he never admitted to doing it, which was the reason why i stopped trusting him.Recently... i broke up with him and went out wiv hes cousin but that didnt work out because hes cousin broke up with me because he couldnt handle us being together. At first i was angry with him but then i realised deep down i still had feelings for him. Hes always told me that he would always be there for me no matter what happened between us and he has. We even made plans for the future and are planning to go to the same university.Now, he wants us to get back together and put the past behind us as he feels like he is more matured and is truly ready for a proper commitment. He is the first and only boy i ever felt i truly loved and i really want to make things work with him but i dont know if it is possible to put the past behind and move on.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 October 2008):
 As long as you both put in a committed effort, AND YOU DON'T THROW IT UP IN EACH OTHERS FACES, You can make it. Of course, the middle part, in capital letters, is the most important part. Lots of Marriages DO survive infidelities, but not without a lost of work, effort, commitment, and forgiveness. You both were NOT very committed before when you were both seeing other guys and girls, so forgive each other and move forward. I hope that you both find happiness together! ;-)
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