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writes:Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still talked and we were friends. Afterall, he lives right across the street from my house. So, its hard not to. After that during the summer he desperatley wanted to go back out with me. But, i had moved on and had a new boyfriend. Besides that my feelings that were so deep in the beginning weren't there anymore. I'm thirteen so thats how love goes now a days i guess. We still managed to communicate and did still have a close relationship because i was always there for him when something happened and vise versa. I had gone through a couple of boyfriends of the course of that summer after him. And, it was time to start school again. He expressed to me his interest in some of my best friends that he knew because of me or through his cousin who had dated one of my friends. His cousin dated one of my friends and we will call her 'Sally'. So the boy told me liked her and i had always opposed the thought of him dating one of my friends because i felt some sortof way. Maybe I thought that he wouldn't go there. But turns out he decided to. Now this girl 'Sally' is going out with him. Honestly, i don't have any feelings for him whatsoever. If given the opportunity which i have been i wouldn't go back out with him. Besides that I have a boyfriend that I'm extremely happy with. And our relationship is going great.The thing about this is that every morning at our school the boy who my friend 'Sally' goes out with comes to the school to see her before going to his own school. The schools are near each other and go in at different times. Sometimes, it becomes difficult to see them together and kiss and stuff. I refuse to state that I am jealous because i don't want him and im happy with my boyfriend. However, I don't know what to do because somehow i feel awkward or uncomfortable around her now and i feel like its making people think i still have feelings for him when thats not the case. Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this out of my mind or something?Thanxx and im sorry its so long. But thanks in advance for helping me to figure this out.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 October 2008):
 Well, no one loves to see their Ex making out with a new girl. It's kind of weird and creepy. It's not exactly jealousy, it's just normal. That's a very short answer for a very long question. Sorry! ;^D
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