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writes:I am in a very tough situation. there is this girl who i like and says she likes me back. she has a bf. 6 months ago she told me that they might break up...so i should wait it out... i waited and waited...six month later its all the same but now im becoming depressed...and i am falling more in love with her...but she is still in love with her bf....she says she loves me and to not give up...but i cant take much of this anymore...I want to tell her im done and i give up...but everytime i bring it up she gets depressed and starts cutting herself...and says she wants to die...i guess i have two questions...one is what do i do? and second why is she with her bf(which btw they have a shitty realationship) who fight and she gets depressed a lot with him...i understand they been together for almost 3 years but i dont get why she stays with him when she says she rather be with me...i probably love her so much illl suffer untill i can be with her...she knows it...and i cant see other girls...cause i think only of her... dont think there is another girl id rather be with...help
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reader, gabriella lopez  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 Honestly, that relationship isnt healthy for both of you. Just move on, you need to let her figure out how much of a great person you are. And second she also must figure out for herself how bad the situation is that shes in. You cannot do anything about it, nor fix it. I've been there with guys, I feel like there my everything and I cant live without them, but sweetie thats wrong. You deserve to love someone who loves you back. So try and move on I believe you can, have faith and good luck. ~Gabriella xoxo
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reader, Orion +, writes (26 September 2008):
Dude all i have to say is i feel you. Im in the exact situation except the girl im after doesn't cut herself. But yes she has a bad relationship tells me she will leave him and i should wait but nothing. I too have suffered from depression and i can't imagine dating anyone else. I honestly don't have any advice cuz i suffer from the same problem but its nice to talk to someone who has the same problem. Message me if you want. I have tried to give up and move on but that never happened. I love her so much i think about her everyday. The on;y thing i can tell you is if she is unhappy and likes you more she WILL eventually realize this. Give it a little more time and if you like her so much then don't give up :)
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