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writes:My coworker and I started messing around with no strings attached. I just broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and am still in hopes of re-patching things up. However, one day we all went out and I invited one of my other girl co workers to come out with us. The guy I was messing around with decides to hook up with her and thinks its perfectly ok for him, as I still have feelings for my ex. I was fine with this since we had no strings attached. What is pissing me off is now he won't talk to me or even acknowledge my existence. I thought we were friends. Is he being shady because he was hurt that I still wanted to get back with my ex? Or he found a new fuck buddy and could care less to say hi to me now.
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (26 September 2008):
 It is usually a bad idea to get in these types of "fuck buddy" deals. Usually one person ends up getting hurt, no matter how much you two really think that there are no strings. There is a bioogical and social aspect to sex and it is very difficult to turn this off. Guys seem to deal with this bettet but at the same time, its hard to predict. He may have found someone who wants more as hlskitten has said. He may have been hurt or he may have not. Only he knows how he felt about the situation. You could either ask him whats going on or leave it at that.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): There are always strings attached. Having sex with someone releases chemicals into the brain that bond you to that person wether you like it or not. Its one of natures little tricks, ain't it great.
Good luck
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 You're mad for getting into anything but platonic friendships if you have your sights set on getting back with your ex. This bloke knows that, has got in with someone else, likes her, and has lost interest in you now. He doesn't need a shag buddy, he's got a new one, and one with potential to go somewhere.
Thats how it seems anyway. I would concentrate on getting back with the ex if thats what you really want.
C xxxx
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