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writes:hi, i left my boyfriend 3 months ago his friends told me he was very depressed when we left but he did not show me that. now after 3 months he contacted me on the internet and told me that he has his girlfriend, but still loves me. he was sending me messages to go online to talk to me a month ago. (why is he telling me that he loves me after this time and he got his girlfriend?)i did not tell him to leave her but he said i can t leave her what should i tell her?so he left with her and told me i will chat with u at night baby, than he left, and from a week he did not go on. i still love him and don t know what to do cause i left him for his behavior. he said that he hated my friends cause they are talking about him. for that reason he did not sit with me in the last week of our relationship. i tried to be with other guys but still miss him, should i trust him another time and give us two another chance? why is he telling me he loves me and he got his girl?is he benefiting from us too or he really loves me and not happy with his girl?
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reader, Star_07  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 To answer your first question: Do not give him another chance!
It seems that you still care about this guy but you left for a good reason. You left because of his depression and maybe there are other reasons. Dont forget why you made that choice. Often, when we seperate from people, the reality of the relationship fades. Yes, people change but not drastically in 3 months. Remember that!
Why is he telling you he loves you? Maybe he does still care about you. It really hasnt been that long since you two have seperated and for him to give up his feelings for you that quicky isnt necessarily going to happen. So, its is possible he still cares. Or he could be needing a boost of his ego. I dont know this guy personally, so its hard to predict. At the same time, if he has a girlfriend, that is a sure sign that he has moved on, at least in some way. He either really likes this girl or she is a "replacement" sort of like a "rebound relationship." Either way, it is not worth your time to get involved in something like that!
In my opinion, I think you should continue to move foward and in the future, find someone that is mentally healthy and someone deserving of your affection!
Take Care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): If he really loves you then he will leave his current girlfriend. Until then stop dwelling on him, and move on with your life.
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reader, hello kitty 101 +, writes (26 September 2008):
 hes paying you big time he wonts you to be there if she leave him girl your his toy he plays with you when his bored with her then he puts you up when he wonts her you need to tell the girl whats going on cause he is playing her to and thats not fair then when she leaves him he will come running back to you and thats when you tell him go to hell thats what you get and walk away from then hes stayed there looking like a dumb ass drop him on his ass girl do it for all the women and girls out there maybe it will help them to good luck girl
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