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writes: Hi so I am new to this. I have a question about an affair that I am having. He well is pretty much married has 2 kids and his wifey's 2 kids. And well I am married with 2 kids. But any ways me and this guy have been seeing each other for 2.5 years now. I have started to develop feelings for him besides just sex. But I have not told him about them I am too chicken to. Because I don't know that he feels the same. So my question is: Is it possible he would have feelings for me as well? When I bring up the topic about us being just sex he always replies uh huhOh he knows I wouldn't leave my husband and I know he wouldn't leave his family
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 Hi Hunny
To be honest it just sounds from your post that its an added bit of excitment for him, You said in you post love that you wouldnt leave your husband can I say if your husband was doing this how would you feel? You may not have been rumbbled yet its been along time but it could be a matter of time before you do and you could loose everything hunny. You are obviously not happy at home but I think that if you told this man of your feelings he would probably not be so lets say happy to see you. Its been going on for so long with no word of love its just been sex so I would think this is a very happy situation for him as he thinks it is for you...And if your feeling love for him now sweetheart you could get hurt as you said you wont leave your husband he wont leave his family so were can this go. It can only really be as it has in the past 2.5 yrs even if he said yes he did have feeling for you love it still wont go anywere and it could make things difficult as you would be thinking differently about the whole situation, Its a very hard situation to be in sweetheart do you not love your husband anymore is there no way you could get back what you had with him as he is obviously blind to whats going on and would this not break his heart love...YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXX
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