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anonymous
writes:i have just entered me first real relationship, but i have major confidence issues. the girl i am going out with is amazing, i love her, but i dont feal that i am good enough for her and that she can do far better than me and it is getting me realy depressed, what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): she chose to be with you, she oviously likes you. she wouldnt want to go out with you if she didnt, be happy with her, dont make her feel like shes not good enough for you cause thats what often happens, show her how much you love her, just love her for her, and she will love you back, she loves you as a person, remember.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (27 September 2008):
 She chose you so buddy, tow the line. Why do you feel like you have to make her decision for her. Maybe she sees more goodness in you than you give yourself credit for. Just be the best person you can be and enjoy the relationship before you sabotage it with your worries and doubts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): major confidence issues are a real turn off.
i've read it. i've lived it.
it's not that we all don't get bouts of insecurity from time to time. even people who seem to have it altogether struggle with doubts and regrets, even if they don't admit it.
i've found this advice to be helpful
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
too, i've also found meditation really helps.
good luck. don't worry there will be more relationships. and probably more heartbreak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): You shouldn't feel like that. She's with you for a reason. She likes you for who you are. I don't think she would be with you if she doesn't think that your'e special.
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