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*tella19
writes:its been a week since my boyfriend left he said that we were over and that he wasnt coming back. i went away this weekend and came back to find that he had come in and taken some things. but left others.. he still is saying hes not coming back but when i call he answers.... i recently found out that i was pregnant i told him he said take care of it and i wont be there for you i dont know what to do or if with time hell come home. i think hes just on a bender hes just staying with a friend around the corner.. i need advice help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): Vow,this is not a very comfortable position to be in;
It does not seem as if this guy is really concerned or as if he really cares much about you or the pregnancy; he basically told you that he will not be there for you and to take care of it yourself;
I suggest you have to decide what your are doing about the pregancy; you have basically three choices; you will have to decide: if you want to raise this child on your ownor adoption or abortion
I suggest you give this some serious thought rather then to waste time wondering about this guy that already told you he is not going to be there for you;
You have to think about what is best for you and your future (clearly without him).
This will be very difficult and very emotional, but take don't waste any more time on this "looser".
Good Luck!
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 you shouldnt worry about him you ashould worry about yourself and the baby if he decides to help thats his decision but you have to decide wether you want this baby or not and if you can cope
its your his baby aswell as yours but if he dont want to be involved you cant force him to help so you may be facing this alone but you will still have friends and family to help out just think of yourself i know its hard and try and forget him
good luck xxxxxx
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