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30-35,
*exy_honey--ready-for-it
writes:I've always wanted to act sexy and one of the only things that all the men that i know say is sexy is to squirt when i'm having an orgasm! can you tell me how to squirt please! my boyfriend does not mind me not squirting but i would love to. and also i dont get many orgasms and if you know how i could get more.thank you love your fan
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 As others here have said, squirting is quite rare and it is surprising that any significant number of your male acquaintances suggest that it is sexy - or claim to know much about it. If more than one out of about 50 or so females in your neighborhood (unscientific but thoughtful guess) are true "squirters" then you need to check the local water supply. It is rare and, by all accounts rather a mess.
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reader, logicdebates +, writes (23 June 2008):
Being "sexy" isn't about orgasms but the way a person presents themselves emotionally and psychologically. I never use the terminology "sexy" but to me, a sweet person is one I can express my feelings, thoughts and engage in meaningful debates with. I would also hang out with that person, visit new places, meet new people. There is a whole world out there, life isn't about sex.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 Well the orgasm is easy, more attention to what you need to get one.
But the squirting, just the other day a poster complained about squirting to much, she did it at every orgasm and wanted to know how to stop it or at least minimize the amount.
To both of you. Sorry, that is just the way your body works. Some do it, some don't.
For those who don't, sometimes a really intense orgasm can do the trick. It is unlikely to happen from intercourse. Get him down there with a vibrator especially one designed to hit the g-spot and go for maximum pleasure. Not "enough" to get you ready for sex, not going for an orgasm but go to town. Tell him to pack a lunch and have a water bottle because you are going to need to work at it. Nobody said an orgasm was fun, it is hard work.
But some women just don't respond that way no matter how in tense the orgasm.
And nothing kills romance/sexyness faster then when sex becomes a chore to meet some impossible goal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): Some people just find it hard to orgasm. Just keep experimenting to see what hits your spot best.
Only a small ammount of women squirt. It comes naturally and is not something that you can control. It happens when the G-spot is stimulated.
It's not something you can learn to do. Sorry hunny.
Sexiness is often about how you present yourself and how you feel. If you feel sexy you will be.
Good Luck. x
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