A
female
age
30-35,
*xAnGelXxx
writes:Well i split up with my ex not long ago, due to the differences in our lives and what we want to do with them, and cos i felt like we were more best friends than lovers. We had been together for a year and a half, long distance mostly. We agreed to stay wicked friends and its all been going well that way, but he keeps on having these little freak out moments where he will start telling me that he misses me (even tho we still talk alot) and that he loves me, wont be able to get over me ect. Then starts saying that he hates himself and blaming himself where he has no reason to blame himself at all considering that he agreed on the reasons of the break up. And has started to try an guilt trip me, when apparently he doesnt mean to, but i was just wondering, what can i say to him to make him feel any better? He say's that im the only person that he can talk to cos im the only one that could ever understand him, and the only person that he trusts. So please, any suggestions on what i could possibably say to him on the front? Thanks. x
View related questions:
best friend, broke up, long distance, my ex, split up Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (23 June 2008):
XxAnGelXxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question That's really no help. Like i said im the only person that he can talk to! I just want him to understand that he's not the blame for anythin,and not to hate himself?
|
