A
male
age
36-40,
*tunned
writes:I'm a pretty confident guy and normally feel fine around women.This girl i met a while back has confused me like never before though.At first we didn't get on at all,she even said she thought i was arrogant (to my face) on our 2nd meeting!She told her mates she thought i hated her.Then we went out as a group and she was mega flirty,out of nowhere.She'll stare at me for long periods of time(like 10-15 seconds-it actually makes me uncomfortable)she sometimes winks,she keeps touching me on the hand/arm + teases me playfully.I didn't want her number,but one evening she got mine from my friend and sent a mesage saying simply-'bless you x'.i thought maybe she wanted contact but her replies are always short and sometimes she doesn't reply at all(Why bother getting the number?!)She never initiates contact or invites me out but if we happen to be at the same event she is really flirty. What the HELL is going on?!I know shes had quite a bit of experience in the past,so is she just toying with me? I think i'm beginning to fall for her so i need to know whether its a waste of time or not?
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reader, Wulfgrimm  +, writes (24 June 2008):
Sounds to me like she is a big flirt.
She wants to flirt with you via text when she has the time, or when she feels like it. Or possibly when she has nobody else to flirt with. Yet when you try to talk to her on your time she is "busy"
I don't think she is looking for a relationship, I think she is just flirting with you for the fun of flirting. Its a big game plain and simple. I say leave her be, move on to a better catch!
good luck bro,
-Cris
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