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Her behaviour has really changed...and I can't take it!

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Question - (23 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2008)
A male India age 36-40, *wertyuiop writes:

I am in love with a girl from the past 7 years....a year ago she herself proposed to me and we entered into a relationship...it went on well but we had some major misunderstandings between us...she then took up a reason and said lets break up and remain friends...it was time of exams so i dint want her to break her head too much over this issue so i agreed...after sometime i noticed her that she changed a lot...i then asked her when we are getting back...that was it..she's never spoken to me again....even in social gatherings she avoids me completely...its been 3 months since she spoke to me well and since then i have been texting her to come back...am i doin the wrong thing ? i was scared that if i went into NC she would get used to it and would move on....i dint want to feel later that i dint try...so i kept on texting her till this day...but the advice i got from all my friends and where ever i see in the internet is to go into NC....i dont know if i have to pursue it..please help me win her over again...i cant live without her...

as a matter of fact she's changed completely in her behavior and she's hanging around other guys a lot more now...i cant take it...

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2008):

What's NC?

It doesn't really matter because this girl has made her self clear with her actions:

She Does Not Want To Be With You.

You have to accept this and move on from it. You can't keep texting and contacting her, you can't just turn up and talk to her out of the blue. She will see that as stalking and have you arrested or worse.

Move on and find another girl.

Good Luck!! xx

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