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writes:I really love this kid in my class. He's just so wonderful. I've tried so hard to get him to like me, but he just doesn't seem interested. Some of my friends think he does actually like me and that he's just shy...but I don't even know anymore. It's so frustrating. He's sending me mixed signals and it's sort of embarrassing too. I'm trying to move on and get over it...My friends have all tried to tell me it's okay and that he really isn't that great, but he is! Everything he does is absolutely wonderful. He's a good musician, good student, good-looking, good person, has good friends, blah blah blah. I'm so sick of this. I feel like he doesn't want me because I'm not perfect and he is. Or maybe he just thinks I'm annoying. I just wish he wasn't so amazing...then it wouldn't be so hard. =[
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): omg i know how u feel this is exactly how I feel omg
but maybe u act weird around him and he used to think ur cute.but u changed because u wanted to make him think ur perfect.maybe u should just try being your self maybe thats wat he wants so just do that.because iff u get annoying and u really arnt that then just make it work better dont get annoying just try getting to him good side first then the bf side lol good luck
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reader, Honey Sweet  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 I know how you feel sweetie dont you dare think that becuase ive felt like that before and its probly one of the most hugest mistakes ive ever made. Just be mates with him for a while and if u have been mates with him for a while, try and talk to him in private.if it doesnt work out, at leasst u get it outta ur chest and worth it. If he doesnt see that, then hes a silly sausauge.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): Hey...i used to be in this same situation and loads of people out here are too, so you are not alone!I really really liked this boy in my school for such a long time, he was popular and mega good looking - he was perfect!We didn't speak often, and i became very shy around him. My friends told me to get over him and move on but no matter what i just couldn't get him out of my mind. I decided to begin talking to him over msn and we gradually got to know each other..now we have been going out with each other for almost 2 years! My advice to you is don't give up! Just be yourself, there is no need to try and impress him constantly...if he likes you he likes you, if he doesn't it isn't the end of the world..it may feel like it but trust me it is not!!! Tell this boy you are interested and see how he reacts, the worst that can happen is that he doesn't feel the same.. in which case you can both go on being friends! x
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